Coconut Oil Deep Conditioner and Detangler

Conditioner Detangler

I decided to do something nice for ME today. It was a little out of character….and it felt a little strange…but overall it was great!

Several weeks ago I came across this Coconut Oil Deep Conditioner hair treatment at and was intrigued. I wanted to give it a try…but something always came up. I swear…having a blog is like having a baby!  I hardly get any sleep and I’m lucky if I can get a shower in during any given day!

So today I decided to put “the baby” down for a nap and MAKE some time for this.

Mixing up the ingredients was a SNAP. Just three ingredients that you mix with a spoon. No heat required.

Conditioner Detangler

After I mixed it up, I decided I would be really smart and put it in a plastic baggie so that I could “pipe” it onto my hair. I THOUGHT this would be less messy, but it really wasn’t. So I wouldn’t bother with this step next time. I’d just use my hands and glop it on that way. Either way it’s a little messy…but nothing that a little soap and water won’t wash right up.

Conditioner Detangler

After applying the conditioner you’re supposed to cover your hair with a plastic bag or a shower cap, neither of which I had on hand at the time. So I ended up fashioning a turban of sorts out of plastic wrap! Now that was quite the sight! lol.  I toyed with the idea of taking a picture of my plastic-wrapped head…but I just couldn’t bring myself to. ;-)

Once your head is appropriately shrink-wrapped, then you’re supposed to apply heat with a hair dryer. I did this for about 5 to 10 minutes. Then you leave the conditioner on for 15 to 30 minutes. I got distracted by something (big surprise!) and ended up keeping it on about 45 minutes. After that I hopped in the shower and shampooed and conditioned as usual.

As I got out of the shower I wasn’t sure I could tell any difference while my hair was still wet…but by the time I was done drying my hair…I definitely noticed a difference! My hair felt much smoother and looked shinier. All afternoon I kept running my fingers over my hair because I wasn’t used to it FEELING so nice. I even snapped a picture so you could see my mostly gray hair looking extra smooth and shiny. (Which, as you know if you have gray hair, is quite a fete feat!)

Conditioner Detangler

So based on my one experience with this economical, easy-to-make, all-natural concoction….

I can unequivocally say….

I’m a fan!


Coconut Oil Deep Conditioner


Make sure all ingredients are room temperature —the coconut oil should be rich and thick.
Measure the coconut oil into a bowl and stir well. The heat from the mixing will give the oil a smooth texture.
Add the jojoba oil and continue to stir until the mixture is even and well-combined.
Add the essential oil. (Be careful, especially with kids; test essential oils on a small patch of skin before using on a larger area to make sure there are no allergic reactions.) Stir all the ingredients together until they form a thick, oily mixture.
Apply to the hair from roots to ends, paying particular attention to any dry areas.
Cover hair with a plastic bag or shower cap and use a hair dryer to warm the hair. Leave on for 15-30 minutes.
Wash and condition hair as usual. Use it once a week for the fullest benefits.

If you’ve ever felt like THIS about your hair……….

tangled hair

…….here’s another hair product you might be interested in. :-)  


It’s a coconut oil detangler that uses the conditioner recipe above. I haven’t tried this yet….but I can only imagine it does wonderful things for your hair as well. :-)

Coconut Oil Detangler


  • 1 part coconut oil deep conditioner (see recipe above)
  • 10 parts water
  • 1 spray bottle

Combine 1 part coconut oil deep conditioner with 10 parts water in a large spray bottle.
After shampooing and rinsing, spray hair with Coconut Oil Detangler lightly as you comb (use a wide-tooth comb) to help work through tangles.

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  1. jasi says

    trader joes has some virgin coconut oil for around $5 i think.

    this is a great post!

    i recently tried a hair mask with coconut oil and a drop of tea tree oil and my hair has been equally shiny. perfect treatment when you know it’s going to be humid soon and you may be in and out of a pool just to stop the frizz.

  2. christina says

    When you are making beauty products do you have to use extra virgin coconut oil? I have read about unrefined coconut versus refined and I am not sure I understand the difference. I found a “cheap” brand of coconut oil at Walmart and I was wondering if I could use that and still get the same results and use the expensive one for cooking.

    • says

      christina…when I first started using coconut oil for making my own products like this…I used the brand at Walmart. Worked fine. The main difference is that regular coconut oil is processed using chemicals….while the virgin coconut oil is made from fresh coconuts….no chemicals.
      Hope this helps! :-)

  3. Mia says

    Wow, your hair looks amazing! I’m definitely going to do this. I got the same brand of coconut oil as you do
    and jojoba oil, just need to run to the store to get the essential oil. Thanks a million for the recipe!! Can’t wait to try it!!!!

  4. Vanessa says

    Jillee, where do you buy your coconut oil? I found almost the same size jar, different brand, at Wal-Mart for $10.97. Is that the going rate? Thanks!

    • says

      Dee….I added a few links to the post where you can purchase these items through Amazon….but you can also find them at your local health food store. :-)

  5. Penny Hannah says

    Looks gorgeous, but a ‘fete” Jillee?. You’re right in the respect that it’s a celebration, but ‘feat’ might be better – sorry, I’m a spelling nerd and shout at things that aren’t right.

    • says

      Dangit! I hate when I misspell stuff! lol. I actually questioned that and was going to Google it to make sure and then I forgot. I blame massive sleep deprivation! :-) Thanks for pointing it out for all to see Penny! j/k. I will fix it right now and then everyone who reads it after your comment will wonder what the heck you are talking about! lol.

      • Penny Hannah says

        Bless you, I’m a pain in the proverbial and fast becoming A Grumpy Old Woman – tend to shout a lot at television presenters and newscasters too.