This One Simple Rule Takes The Stress Out Of Hosting

While I enjoy hosting backyard barbecues, New Year’s Eve parties, Christmas parties, and other get-togethers, the role of host can be stressful. It’s easy to get lost in the details or lose track of time if you don’t have a plan for the day of the event, but I recently learned about a simple hosting hack called the “3-hour rule” that can help hosts prepare for guests in a realistic timeframe.

Different types of people struggle with different aspects of hosting, but the 3-hour rule can be a useful tool for anyone. Whether you’re more likely to run around in a last-minute panic or spend the whole day on less-than-necessary tasks, this hosting tip can help!

Jillee’s Take:

As a host, I often spend so much time and effort perfecting the food, decor, and ambiance that I end up with about 10 minutes to make myself presentable before guests start arriving. The 3-hour rule provides clear guidelines that make it easier for hosts like myself to keep the big picture in mind.

What Is The 3-Hour Rule?

When you host a party or get-together, aim to begin preparing and setting up 3 hours before guests arrive. The idea is to give yourself plenty of time to set up, handle last-minute issues, and get dressed without letting stress or anxiety get the better of you.

The Benefits Of Following The 3-Hour Rule

It may seem simple, but having that 3-hour block set aside in mind makes a huge difference in how I approach hosting. Knowing that I want to give myself an hour to shower and get ready, I can look at the remaining 2 hours of prep time and prioritize the tasks that are actually important.

Even if I realize I need to, say, make a last-minute run to the grocery store for napkins, I have the time to do it because I’m not bogged down by cleaning the baseboards (or any of the other low-priority tasks I would normally sidetrack myself with).

I love hosting, spending time with family during the holidays, and making memories. Try preparing for your next party or gathering by following the 3-hour rule — I know you’ll agree it’s a game-changer! With a clear plan in mind, you can spend less time stressing and more time making memories with the people you love.

What’s your best hosting tip?